Explanation!

I'm not asking for much... Really. Just a simple explanation... Not excuses, not whining, not "poor me", not "...but it's YOUR fault because... I don't know why. It just is!". I am not asking for anything other than an honest explanation.  I'm tired of the stupid, meow-meow, whiny baby, sorry ass excuses that rush forth every single time the mouth opens up. Nope! DO NOT WANT! Nobody else wants to hear it either... How's that for an eye opener?