The Definition of a WOMAN......

Long gone are the days when women were thought to be the dominated, subservient lower class, answerable to men and blah..... Thank goodness too, because I don't think I would have survived. Although there are still parts of the world where this is still true and these barbaric places are terrible to their women, it is not as true here in the US.

The measure of a woman has changed quite a bit over the last couple of generations and there really is no "general consensus" as to what a woman should be. Everything from the "don't judge me!" thing to the "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" thing comes in to play these days and women come in all sorts of everything. Depending on upbringing and crap like that, a "woman's role" really and truly varies. Generationally speaking, you're going to have your differences too.

What the fuck though.... Seriously! I'm really not understanding the whole tits and ass and shallow personality, perpetual victims and the big poofy lips and the waif thin or super fat, stupid idiot types that are sprouting up all over the place and becoming the ideal. It's rather disgusting. We didn't fight for civil liberties and equal rights just to play the role of idiot bimbos, did we? SHIT! Regardless of upbringing or influence or whatever, there are certain things that women should be and it's not the "ideals" that we and our daughters are being told we should be.

Women should be full of strength and ferocity, be upstanding and outspoken, have compassion and not pretend to be second to anything or anyone. Women should be full of pride, not to be mistaken with inflated sense of ego, but the positive state or feeling of being proud of who and what you are because of accomplishment. What I see in todays youth? The bubble headed, idiot gigglers that I want to slap the bejesus out of. It's so fucking annoying! They learn it from social media and television and magazines. All of these stars who became the iconic ideals of what our youth should be.... Ugh... And for me to try and imagine what today's girls are going to grow up to be gives me a headache.

What ever happened to the down to earth ideals that defined what a woman should be? Instead of the shallow, idiot, bimbos with a superiority (for no reason, mind you...) complex. Since when did women become such shallow, selfish, evil, backstabbing creatures? Many people wonder why I don't have women friends..... This is the reason why. Shallow, helpless, mindless, cookie cutter idiots with entitlement complexes..... BLECH! That is definitely the OPPOSITE of what the true definition of what I believe a woman should be. 


A woman should be strong and confident and able to carry forth through good and bad times. Women are the backbones of the family. The core, the heart. Our sisters before us clawed their way to the top, not so that we could revert back to everything that they fought not to be expected to become, but so that we could grow and show the fibers of what we are made from what real women should be. 


I fear for my daughter as "Snookie" invades the homes and minds of the average household. I can only hope that she will grow with a better set of values and with more strength and passion than your average household. She will come to know more truth than most people around me are comfortable dealing with or will lie to cover up. She will be able to make up her mind about things because she has ALL the facts or will seek out the facts if they are not given to her. She will fight, she will not back down, she will not give up. She will not become one of those whiny sissy pansy babies that have become more "the norm" these days. No way. Not MY Mini Doom.....